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  • They will be them

    Trust people to be themselves.  Stop expecting people to change.  Each person has their own perspective.  It’s about them.  Can any of us really see each other? Really hear each other?  Many days I am doubtful.  I get paid to listen extremely closely.  Most people get paid to do shit they hate, or that focuses on a different skill set.  I’m no master.  But some days I despair of human relationships.  I will, however, starting today, stop expecting others to change or do what I want.  I’m done with negative control.  I can only control my thoughts, discarding those without merit, and thus my emotions. 

  • Hood River Garden of Hope

    http://www.lavenderfarms.net/hoodriverlavender/links.html

     Garden of Hope-A place for healing
      

    A quiet solitary Garden, where I can pause and be still, and let my heart reflect on the pain of loss…Loves’ arms are wrapped around my dear baby girl, keeping and loving her until the day I see her again. You are forever in my heart, Brandy Layne, I Love you my Darling.

  • 45 Days

    Why Greg is so amazing:

    • We both share a path of recovery and self-improvement.
    • He is honest and learning to share his feelings more directly.
    • He is willing to be of service and help others and holds this as a value.
    • He opens doors for me and is a gentleman.
    • He would never raise his voice or a hand, etc.
    • He is so talented not only with being a chef, but decorating, etc.
    • And yet he bats for the right team (for me at least).
    • He is open minded, after not having been for years.
    • He is taller than me and has beautiful blue bedroom eyes.
    • He makes a good living and improves my quality of life with our joint incomes.
    • He is willing to share our finances and keep us both on track with improving our financial management.
    • He is a good and safe driver.
    • He is romantic and thoughtful.
    • He is compassionate and supports that quality in me.
    • He understands me and is my equal.

  • bridal shower today

     

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    Brenda and Jane

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    Jane and Kristen, Maid of Honor

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    Jane and Susan, host, supervisor and officiant

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    Nancy, Jane and Jill, bridesmaid

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    Jane and Monique, cohostess

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    Jane and Liz, bridesmaid

  • Wed. April 21st for Jane

        Your need for practical results may annoy those around you. However, you could be correct when you insist that everyone stick to the rules when it comes to business matters.

        Others will find you to be very open minded on most subjects today. Your desire to travel may have to take a backseat to the entertaining of visitors from afar. Church, civic or school dealings go well.

        Unusual forms of travel are favored during this time. You may want to visit a foreign place you love; however, this time take a different route, or a different companion for the trip.

        The pursuit of personal educational, religious or political goals may have to be temporarily shelved now. My dear, handle your public relations responsibilities with kid gloves. Try not to be domineering.



    Thurs. April 22nd for Jane

        You could be tempted to judge authority figures a bit harshly today. It might help if you thought about what you would do if you were in their shoes. This may change your mind.

        Ambitious companions, or friends, could be exciting for you to hang out with today. Enjoy being around them, soak up the atmosphere, and see what you can learn from them.

        The travel bug could easily bite today, or you could receive welcome visitors from far away. Foreign affairs may also interest you now as would community and religious events.

        You are more aware of religious and cultural differences today. Have you ever learned a foreign language or studied the traditions of another land? Open your mind and the world opens to you.


    Friday April 23rd for Jane

        An aspect of your daily job could leave you feeling the need for a more stimulating situation. It may be that you need to get away for a few hours to gain a new perspective on your goals.

        Problems and emotional misunderstandings could be the direct result of philosophic differences or cultural traditions that no longer hold water. Avoid lazy or inconsistent behaviors and be punctual today.

        Although you feel nice and comfortable right now, someone may ask you to make a big adjustment for the sake of the group. Be a sport, my friend. Folks will thank you for it.

        This is a fine day for taking part in cultural enrichment programs, attending lectures or concerts or taking up studies that will increase your knowledge or job skills. Travel is also a possibility.

        Someone you care for could be moving to a distant location, and this can be hard to handle. You know it’s probably just temporary, and you can call, visit, and write as much as you want.


    Sat. April 24th for Jane

        Your mind may be moving in many directions at once right now. Stay focused on anything that has a deadline in your life. You can play later, now is the time for action.

        You tackle practical business problems with vigor and enthusiasm today. Everyone had better get out of your way. You are a person with a mission, and superiors will give you the go-ahead.


    Sun. April 25th for Jane

        Now is when you may have to listen to your inner voice when it concerns criticism about yourself. My friend, you should remember that you always do the best that you can do.

        You enjoy the feeling that the public is watching you today. Any public speaking you do is impressive. Your neighbors and associates might suggest you get involved in local politics.

        Social engagements may be connected with your work, daily responsibilities or peers and co-workers. This can be a jovial time, but you will need to discipline yourself if anything is to get done.  [Bridal Shower]

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  • 54 Days until our wedding day! That’s 27 work days… 7 weeks of work… Bridal shower this weekend!

  • Astrology This Week

    New Moon on Wednesday, April 14th, 2010, at 8:29 AM EDT.

    On Wednesday morning, a new cycle begins. The Pisces New Moon cycle ends and the Aries New Moon cycle begins. The New Moon in Aries is a good time to commit to personal goals that express the positive energies of the sign of the Ram. It’s time to take action—try something new and innovative, and go at it with gusto and confidence; be assertive without being abrasive; take charge of our lives; start a brand new project; and discover our own personal courage.

    This is a strong cycle under which to re-evaluate our relationship to ourselves. With this potent Aries energy, we have the chance to make important changes in our lives. It’s time to make some solid yet realistic plans, and to set the stage for reaping the rewards from our new beginnings, as little or big as they may be, in approximately two weeks’ time after the Full Moon occurs.

    Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, and thus a New Moon in Aries is especially ripe with opportunity for new beginnings. We might consider acting on a constructive impulse and following a hunch, or taking a risk. Aries learns through experience and action, so we might treat ourselves to a little adventure now. It’s also a good cycle under which to discover the benefits of expressing ourselves with authenticity—expressing ourselves as we are, without putting on airs. We might also find ways to learn how to rely on ourselves and to be happy about doing so—it will go a long way towards finding inner happiness when we know that we can be self-sufficient without blaming others for not helping us out. It’s a time to revitalize ourselves through experiences that break the routine and that involve doing something new and fresh.

  • alternative tattoo placement


    or put it on the back of this arm?

  • tattoo placement


    Should I do a cover up? or put it behind this, my oldest piece?